In this episode we’re diving into practical strategies for handling challenging behaviors in children using Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) principles, with director of Care to Change, April Bordeau, who is also a parent, as well as a TBRI practitioner and educator, interviewed by returning host, Larry Vinson.
Parenting can be tough, especially when dealing with difficult behaviors in children. So how do we maintain connection while holding kids accountable for their behavior? Join us to learn more.
Key Discussion Points:
- Understanding TBRI:
- What is TBRI and how does it differ from traditional parenting approaches?
- Core principles: Empowering, Connecting, and Correcting.
- How TBRI addresses the needs of children from hard places.
- Identifying Difficult Behaviors:
- Common challenging behaviors in children and adolescents.
- Recognizing underlying causes of these behaviors.
- The importance of trauma-informed care in understanding behavior.
- TBRI Strategies for Parents:
- Connecting: Building trust and attachment through intentional interactions.
- Strategies for creating a safe and nurturing environment.
- The role of empathy and validation in building connections.
- Empowering: Strengthening your child’s sense of competence and control.
- Encouraging autonomy and decision-making within appropriate boundaries.
- Building confidence and self-esteem through positive reinforcement.
- Correcting: Addressing challenging behaviors with compassion and consistency.
- Effective discipline techniques that focus on teaching rather than punishing.
- Setting clear expectations and consequences while maintaining connection.
- Connecting: Building trust and attachment through intentional interactions.
- Practical Applications:
- How to implement TBRI principles in everyday parenting scenarios.
- Case studies or examples illustrating TBRI in action.
- Adjusting strategies based on the unique needs of each child and family.
- Supporting Parental Well-being:
- The impact of parenting challenging behaviors on parental stress and mental health.
- Self-care strategies for parents to maintain emotional resilience.
- Seeking support and resources from mental health professionals and support groups.
Parenting difficult behaviors requires patience, understanding, and effective strategies. By applying TBRI principles, parents can foster healthy relationships and support their children’s emotional development. Remember, it’s about building trust, connecting deeply, and correcting with compassion.
Thank you for tuning in to today’s episode. We hope you found valuable insights into using TBRI principles to navigate parenting challenges. For more information and resources on TBRI and mental health support, visit www.caretochange.org. Stay tuned for more empowering conversations on mental health and parenting.
Resource mentioned – Parenting Through The Phases Series
Self Guided Course on TBRI
Theraplay Principles
